Spring into summer, summer into fall, fall into winter — and then the cycle starts again. Some people measure time in birthdays or milestones. I measure mine in moods, playlists, and outfit changes.

I used to think the idea of a long-distance friendship or relationship was ridiculous. “That would never last,” I’d say, certain that closeness was measured in miles and not in meaning.

“life’s a marathon, not a sprint”

Think about it: how many times have you set a goal—whether in fitness, career, or even relationships—and felt frustrated when the results didn’t come fast enough?

This past year, I realized something simple but powerful: I started saying yes more often than I said no. And the ripple effect has been undeniable.

Italy had been my dream for years—the food, the history, the beauty. But living there wasn’t the same as the Italy I had built in my head.